Monday, November 4, 2013

A Special Evening!

"And if it so be that you should labor all your days in crying repentance unto this people, and bring, save it be one soul unto me, how great shall be your joy with him in the kingdom of my Father!"


 Dan had the privilege last Friday of baptizing this sweet grandmother, Duudee. The little girl is her granddaughter whom she is raising on her own.  After she was baptized, this sweet, quiet woman stood at the pulpit and gave her heartfelt testimony of the gospel of Jesus Christ and how she was a "changed person". As she spoke, you could hear a pin drop in the Chapel. The Spirit was so strong. It was truly a highlight of our mission.



Afterwards they had refreshments. The sister missionaries, Sister Onon and Sister Stevelmaa, had baked 2 delicious cakes and 2 pans of  jello with fruit! Then everyone around the table read 5 scriptures each. Sister Onon, who is cutting the cake, is a very good interpreter and has helped us out many times when Nyam-Od was not available. The interpreters are our life-line. Without them we surely could not accomplish all that we set out to do. We are still learning phrases and words in Mongolian, but it is slow going. :(  Nyam-Od has been invaluable. She is like our guardian angel, always watching out for us!

 
It was a very special evening!
 
 
 
Below is the Batsaiken Family that we've been visiting. We first got to know Brother Batsaiken as he did a lot of taxi driving for us. He's an exceptional taxi driver, always willing to go the extra mile and the real PLUS is that he knows where all the members live!! :) If you've ever driven or walked the ger district you would understand why. It is just a mindboggling maze of fences, gates, ruts, rocks, dogs and mudpuddles.

 
We have a hard time getting the Mongolian people to smile for pictures. I guess it's a tradition. :)
Anyway, they had us over for delicious Mongolian homemade noodle soup, so we had them over, and of course our interpreter, Nyam-Od, for American BBQ chicken, American potato salad and of course American baked beans and homemade French Bread. :) It was quite a different experience for them but they loved it!!  Brother Batsaiken said he wanted to drink the whole bottle of BBQ sauce!
 
 
They are a sweet couple and family. See the boy, in the red sweat shirt? He is sitting on a box. We had originally put our coffee table at the end for the kids to sit on since we did not have enough chairs. But, the mom and dad said it was bad luck to sit on a table and would not allow it. We thought that was very interesting. There are a lot of other strong traditions/superstitions like that in Mongolia, of which I am sure we have broken especially when it comes to ger etiquette! Oh dear!!
 
 
Above is our dear, sweet, Sister Uran, her grandson and great grandson! Sister Uran is a precious daughter of our Heavenly Father. We met her when we first arrived in Mongolia. She had had two daughters pass away within two weeks of each other. It was so, so heartbreaking. As we continued our visits, we have become very close. She says, "You are my parents"! :)  Sister Uran is 78, hard of hearing and going blind.
 
 Her oldest son who is 60 years old, is totally blind, mostly deaf and needs a wheelchair. Deseret International Charities gave him a wheelchair some years back, but no longer can Deseret distribute them to anyone. The government here requires that they are given first to Social Services, then the people have to apply for them. If they want to give you one, they will. Deseret recently gave them 200 wheelchairs. They got a newer one from Social Services but it was too small. We took her to Social Services to get a bigger one and at first they said yes, then a week later they said no. But a few weeks later, they just showed up one day and delivered one. Yay!!
 
 You can't help but smile when Sister Uran is around. She is such a fun person to be around and always upbeat. She reminds me so much of my own mom. Brother Batsaiken, the taxi driver, and I make our way to the far end of the ger district to pick her up each Sunday for Church. She always has her dell on and ready to go. She came to one of my English classes and had a blast!! 
 
 
 
 

Friday, November 1, 2013

Nomin Kindergarten & Handicapped Day Care

A couple from Ulaanbaatar, who own and operate a Kindergarten there, bought an old Darkhan Police Station and converted it into a large Kindergarten.  For the first time she is accepting handicapped children at a very reduced rate so parents can afford to place the children in this Day Care. They have no experience working with the handicapped and a local handicapped children support organization was asked to help.  We have been working with that group on other projects and we were invited in to offer our advice.  Since I worked for 7 years as an OSHA consultant I provided advice and ideas on how to make the facility "accessible". 

At that point Debbie really took over and has been instrumental in changing the dialog about how to support the handicapped.  Her experience working with Autistic and Aspergers kids in Kansas has been a huge help here.  Her ideas and experience teaching them "Life Skills" has become the new buzz words for how to teach these kids to become more independent from the constant care of their parents. She has given a number of lessons to the staff and parents on how to teach the kids to brush their teeth or their hair. Also, how to hold a spoon, etc.  She has other great ideas to help them communicate using patches with Velcro on the back. Last night we attended a presentation in another city nearby and the presenters spoke about the need to teach "Life Skills" they learned from her to the handicapped kids in their town.

(News just received. At the event last night the parents has been requesting a room in one of the schools to be just for the handicapped kids. They want some developmental tools, floor mats and physical therapy equipment too.  The board said no at previous meetings.  I meet with them and I guess I argued a pretty good case.  The parent heading up the effort told us they approved the room today.)

She has been out scouring the city looking for toys that can be used for teaching kids to speak that haven't spoken or made noise before.  She found a toy the kids immediately took in hand and tried to speak or make noises. The parents were in tears.  She found others that helped them to develop flexibility, eye-hand coordination and increased motor skills. She is also helping to develop a proposal to submit to Deseret International Charities to fund floor mats and physical therapy equipment.

I am so very proud of her. She is so good with kids. They all immediately fall in love with her.  We are in demand to attend every handicapped event or activity in the area. They all want our advice and to speak at the event and to have pictures taken with us.